So, of course, Mr. Wade's back this week from his brother-in-law Lane's funeral. He told me about how after the ceremony, him and his wife and other friends sat down and split up his possessions, most notably his cd collection. I thought, what a beautiful reassuranceto have while dying, that your friends will sit down round a warm fireplace, go through and divide up your library of albums, talking about music and telling old stories about you, laughing and crying and sharing music all at the same time.